Ouchies

Bad news has multiplied like Gremlins in the Villano house this week. First L came down with her first doozie of a cold. Then the cold triggered a double ear infection—one in each of her tiny little ears.

Since Wednesday evening (during which Powergirl was up all night), we’ve crafted our lives around L’s routine of antibiotics, Benadryl and Ibuprofen. We also have taken turns walking the house at night, so the baby can sleep on our shoulders (she’s so congested, this is the only way she can actually breathe).

While the medicine seems to be working, this morning we received another curveball: The antibiotic is causing a nasty rash all over L’s body.

And so, a new cycle—with entirely different medicine—is about to begin.

Considering this is L’s first significant health hiccup, the entire experience has been a learning process for all three of us. Some thoughts (and questions):

    • No matter how painful a double ear infection is, it must be ten times worse to have a double ear infection and not be able to communicate well enough to tell your momma or daddy where it hurts. The poor thing.
    • We have called our health care provider’s advice nurses five times in the last 72 hours. Is this a lot? Is this standard? Are we being delinquent? I wonder.
    • L hates hates hates it when I wipe her nose. Why? At what point will she not mind?

Oh, and one more thing. While I hate that the baby has been so drowsy and sleepy, I admit that I’ve thoroughly loved the way she’s fallen asleep on my chest the last few days. They’re a throwback to her first few months on Earth, when she’d nap that way all the time. I know she’ll get sick lots of times throughout her childhood. The chest-plants, however, are something we may never see again.

1 comment to Ouchies

  • Emily Polsby

    Hi Matt!

    In addition to being a publicist and freelance writer, in my previous life, I was a newborn nanny. You are NOT calling the advice nurse too much! Nobody likes to see their tiny loved one in pain and you are right to think that at this stage in her life, it’s important to separate what can be expected from what warrants a trip to the ER. As she ages, and you add those siblings you mentioned, you will get really good at this and need very little advice. My Mom, who raised three of us, knows as much or more than many medical professionals about sick kids at this point. Will she ever not hate your wiping her nose? Hard to say. Depends on the kid…I can say that nobody at any age seems to enjoy being decongested via one of those turkey baster balls that all the new Moms I know seem to love using.

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